I am sitting here, retired, put out pasteur, and thinking what a general failure my life has been. Lest you think that I am in some sort of retired, old age, depressed funk, actually I am quite amused with my failure. While I wouldn't necessarily declare my life a grand success, I ain't rich, powerful, well known or particularly influential, I don't think I did all that bad. I have managed to pay Federal income taxes every year of my life since turning 18, so by some measure touted about in last year's presidential campaign I am doing OK. True, I do not have enough resources to worry about burying it in tax havens in the Cayman Islands, in fact I really don't have the resources to vacation in the Cayman Islands but none the less I am doing OK. I am happy, got a modest roof my head, and a damned good woman at my side. But alas I am a failure.
Under the category of Teachers Say The Darndest Things, I had more than one teacher tell me that I would be a failure in life.
After successfully completing first grade and even having a crush on my teacher, I sort of bombed second grade. Frankly the teacher scared the shit of me. I just didn't seem to click with her class. One of her grand educational goals was jurisprudence. She assigned the smartest kid in the class to be the chief justice of the supreme court of second grade. This kid was smart and always good. So he held a permanent position as judge. A rotating position was the prosecuting DA in which she (as god of the class) both directed and assisted. Three members of the class were a jury, (she couldn't use 12 because that would have cut into her pool of defendants). There were no defense attorneys. So this court would go into session and the teacher, like some Nazi SS goon, would ask the class for specific accusations against class members. Trial would then be held for each accusation. While she had these so called officers of the court on hand, she actually ran the whole show her self, only seeking agreement from the judge, DA, and jury. Verdicts were issued and sentencing was done all rather expediently. Fortunately the sentencing usually was just being yelled at and humiliated in front of the class. I don't remember of anyone getting paddled or sent to the principals office. We learned in second grade that it was good to be a tattle tale. Anyhow these trials and just about everything else she did scared the hell out of me, and I spend most of second grade crying. My academic performance was bad, but not failing. She told my mother that even though I did not fail second grade, because of my lack of emotional maturity that I would most likely fail future grades and that I would never be a good student. Third grade, I had a wonderful teacher and never cried once. I failed to fail any future grades.
My sixth grade teacher told my parents that I was destined for blue collar work...end of conversation. She was right! This same teacher told my mother and father in law that my brother in law was not college material that they should plan on him being in a blue collar trade. She had a thing for blue collars. My brother in law got a bachelors and masters degree in education and completed 40 years as an elementary teacher winning many awards along the way. Hey, even some of the best odds makers call the wrong horse. But she right about me. I was blue collar, even after I got into engineering, I was still blue collar. As they said out on the floor, you take the mill hunk out of the mill, but you can't take the mill out of the mill hunk.
I had a seventh grade science teacher drag me and another kid out into the hall from study hall. He asked us, "Hows comes youse guys is always wizen off?" Which we were. He then launched into a grim future based on our poor behavior in study hall delivered in language such as the above. Yins was one of his favorite words. I don't remember one thing this guy taught me about science. But English grammar? Priceless.
|The gutter or prison?|
A music teacher looked into her crystal ball over my inability to properly identify a G clef in 7th grade. That resulted in a 5 minute lecture to the class that started with "Now here is a young man that..." The lecture went from a failure identify a G clef to a failure to take good music seriously which of course would lead to a general failure in life. She fully expected that I would spend my life either in the gutter or prison. I did fail to appreciate music until I took music appreciation in college six years later because it was a cake course.
A math teacher (retired navy captain) in college told me that I was not cut out to be a college student, my presence in this college was denying a more qualified student a seat and was lowering the standards and academic performance of the college. He recommended that I immediately quit college and join the navy. I failed his class but had straight As in the rest of my classes. I repeated the class with another teacher, and yes I was no math wizard but I did miss a B by only a few points on the final.
While I was in the Air Force, I took some classes at a local community college near the base I was assigned in California. I had a speed reading teacher tell me that people like me were going to be the down fall of western civilization. Wow! All from people like me. In his defense he was blind with fury when he made this prediction. The problem? I had been in this guy's class for a month. My other classes were early in the morning and this class was at one o'clock in the afternoon. I had spent a month listening to how colonels from the base had benefitted from his speed reading course, how various professors at this school improved their speed and comprehension of reading...on and on... corporate CEOs, clergy, doctors, and lawyers. This class was miraculous, I could expect to see my income improve, and the future would be bright, just by learning to speed read. One month into the class and we had not done a damn thing about speed reading. It was something more of a speed reading appreciation class rather than a speed reading class. It reminded me a lot of the University of Phoenix commercials that we see on TV. A lot of promises being bandied about.
|Sextant, you pusillanimous pussyfooter,|
you nattering nabob of negativism!
I had a dean at the University of Pittsburgh tell me that he was not in favor of allowing part time students in the College of Arts and Sciences but the university forced his hand. "There is a synergy of the educational experience, living in the dorm, participating in college social life, taking full academic credit loads under which the full time student thrives and is denied to the part time student." I explained that I was 32 years old, married, mortgaged, working a full time union job but stuck on second shift which meant that I had to attend day classes and I was majoring in computer science to improve my lot in life. He replied back that the College of Arts and Sciences was not for vocational training. (To which I thought, then why the f--- is computer science in the College of Arts and Sciences?) Staring off at some point 15 degrees off the horizon he told me that the mission of the College of Arts and Sciences was not "income potential" but rather to "broaden the student's horizons" and provide society with a "generation of thinking good citizens through a liberal arts education." And here I thought I was being a good citizen by having spent 4 years in the Air Force. Silly me. Exasperated, I asked him would you have me divorce my wife, quit my job, sell my house, move into the dorm, and mix and mingle by taking co-eds 12 years my junior to the spring fling? He advised that I had missed my opportunity in life (alas going off into the wild blue yonder was not all that it was cracked up to be) and if I couldn't attend classes at the school of General Studies (night classes at Pitt--which I gathered he considered a waste of university resources) then I should consider attending a community college. I didn't bother telling him that I already had two associate degrees. The dispute? My advisor insisted I take two classes. I only wanted to take one. Two is the requirement. So I spend 20 minutes talking to this pusillanimous pussyfooter of a dean, listening to all this high falutin' bullshit, and then he finally says I am sorry but we will not waive the 12 credit a year requirement for part time students. So after 20 minutes of undiluted liberal arts theoretical horseshit we finally get to the fricking requirement. You have to take 12 credits a year. Not two courses a semester but 12 credits a year. Thank you your majesty. I enrolled one class. My stab at computer science was derailed not by failing to attend the spring fling, but rather by the propensity of the university to hire foreign teachers who could not speak adequate English. I did not have a clue of what the teacher was saying. After acing three classes toward my major (including calculus--which was sheer luck) I was forced to drop a class because at the first test I had nothing written in my note book and the teacher told us that she did not use the text. Do not buy it. It was the only thing she said that I understood. How do you study for a test with no notes or a text book? I went up to the computer science department and the register read like the office directory of the United Nations. My wife was pregnant, and I just came to the conclusion that maybe computer science is not for me. In retrospect, the babbling teacher did me a huge favor. I doubt that I would have made a big splash in the world of computer science, rather than inventing some language or money making app, I imagine that I would have found employment at our IT department. Going around installing the latest version of Windows on everyone's PC didn't strike me as fascinating work. Hard to know that when I was enthralled with a Commodore Pet.
So here I sit on the threshold of old age. I have failed. I failed to fail classes, failed to stay 100% blue collar although remaining so in spirit, failed at becoming a professional wizen off, failed at getting into the gutter or prison, failed the United States of America by not becoming a speed reader like so many colonels and master sergeants (Amazon is really pissed...if I could speed read I could spend more money on Kindle books), and failed to become a computer scientist despite the best efforts of the dean of the College of Arts and Sciences. So I think I will take my ne'er-do-well old ass, sit in a chair, fire up the Kindle, and read a couple of paragraphs at an abysmal rate and drift off in a nap with 7 year old chief justices, G-clefs, broadened horizons, and 20 year old co-eds spring flinging in my head.
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